People often ask questions with least expectation when there dont standby your side. For the sake of making them happy, avoid the sour grapes becoz of their unattainable goals. Answer them in your most reasonably humble way would just make them feel satisfy. We skip the most important fact, we vague the topic, We tell lies by ommision. We feel wronged, but we avoid noise. It's still small girl fumbling around the big city, but got to be with much more strength and courages. oh ya, my current status is: depressed